Show-Off Culture and Individual's Intentions
Is this world really adopting show off
culture or they are happy with sharing every single thing even private thing to
everyone?
Is showing everything to everyone is
appropriate?
Does it really make you happy or more
conscious about what other might thing about you?
These are the types of questions you might
usually ask yourself, others or have listened in some lazy gossips. And you
might have not found the right answer.
The phrase "That person is such a show-off" you must had have heard in your life or even said it yourself about others. But internationally or unintentionally we are also doing the same in some way. Likewise, Snobbery is also becoming a part of our lives. We just say things for acknowledgment that we are aware of it but intentionally or unintentionally we are part of it. We brag about a lot of things and always weaving around just to show off that you are involved in breaking stereotypes but in actual you are somehow also part of it. For example, we always brag about being respectful towards your parents an elder, people usually put a lot of pictures of their parents on parent’s day and bragging about how respectful you shouldn’t be towards them but in actual you are not doing the same what you say. Likewise, people are bragging about child labor on internet, and might they have a 10-year boy or girl coming with their parents to work at your home.
In the same context of show-off, we are
doing things which we might not be comfortable with, but we do it to have
influence on others perception about you. For example, people buying expensive
phone e.g., iPhone. Yes! It's true that buying it might make them happy but
unconsciously they think about making other happy of him, acknowledging him
etc. Unintentionally but, People like being acknowledged or appraised and they
also appraise or Respect those who are strong in position. And this phenomenon
leads to people being unsatisfied about themselves all the time. People start
caring about other's opinion, perceptions, and appreciation more than their
happiness and limits.
Is social media playing a role in normalizing show off?
We can obviously notice that with passage of time and growing technological era, this culture is becoming a casual thing. But we cannot deny that this never existed people still used to show off at that time when there was no social media or technology, but they would do it by presenting and bragging their things in front of those who would get either jealous or inspired. But it is also true that at that time this was not that much easy or normal. Now, every single person is doing this and not even thinking about that what they are doing. It is becoming a norm to put pictures on your social media accounts about everything you had, where you go, where you are, what you are wearing, what you are feeling not thinking about how some people who are jealous of you are becoming more annoyed by you and the people who are deprived from that luxury are getting into more complex.
Has show-off culture only one and bad side?
No, we cannot conclude this as some people
are using it for sake of awareness. Some people show their success and success
stories so that others can also get inspired and work too. Likewise, some
people do show their charity to spread awareness about that class of society
who needs this and to motivate others to do the same. Some people might not
like sharing about these things to others which is also good but sharing it
with the intention of awareness and motivate is best.
Everything has a positive and a negative
side. So, it all depends on your intentions of showing off, what you are
sharing and how you are sharing. But
there are some limits and privacy that shouldn't be a show-off as it takes away
the real beauty of life while you were capturing it to please others.
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